{"id":79195,"date":"2022-11-16T22:16:57","date_gmt":"2022-11-16T22:16:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/advice-the-best-stories-from-carolyn-haxs-holiday-live-chats-the-washington-post\/"},"modified":"2022-11-16T22:16:57","modified_gmt":"2022-11-16T22:16:57","slug":"advice-the-best-stories-from-carolyn-haxs-holiday-live-chats-the-washington-post","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/advice-the-best-stories-from-carolyn-haxs-holiday-live-chats-the-washington-post\/","title":{"rendered":"Advice | The best stories from Carolyn Hax&#039;s holiday live chats &#8211; The Washington Post"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sign in<br \/>The holiday season means advice columnist Carolyn Hax\u2019s annual celebration of holiday horror stories is around the corner. Since 2000, readers have shared their favorite holiday memories, whether they be the most ridiculous or touching, to the special live chat, also known as the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/advice\/2022\/02\/08\/carolyn-hax-hootenanny-transcripts-by-year\/?itid=lk_inline_manual_1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Holiday Hootenanny<\/a>.<br \/>In December 2000, Carolyn wrote an article, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/archive\/lifestyle\/magazine\/2000\/12\/03\/great-expectations\/45afc4ad-335d-4cdc-b038-453f7c1c0392\/?itid=lk_inline_manual_3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Great Expectations<\/a>,\u201d about the highs and irrational lows the anticipation of the holidays brings. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-srv\/liveonline\/00\/magazine\/hax120400.htm?itid=lk_inline_manual_6&#038;itid=lk_inline_manual_42&#038;itid=lk_inline_manual_3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">In a live chat discussing the piece<\/a>, readers shared how their own expectations of the holidays were let down in all kinds of hilarious ways \u2014 and the hootenanny was born.<br \/>In the years since, many have brought big laughs recounting their stories of holiday celebrations gone haywire. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/advice\/2022\/12\/09\/live-chat-carolyn-hax\/?itid=ap_carolynhax&#038;itid=lk_inline_manual_4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Before this year\u2019s hootenanny,<\/a> read through <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/advice\/2022\/02\/08\/carolyn-hax-hootenanny-transcripts-by-year\/?itid=lk_inline_manual_4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">past years\u2019 live chats<\/a> that have made this tradition special. These stories have become often referenced lore in Carolyn\u2019s reader community.<br \/>If you think we missed an essential hootenanny moment, <a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSfs5lJjT37C-d-ZC2B7sTjCR_KPRyoJSGVSTK2LH6AXKhkHDA\/viewform\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">let us know here<\/a>. If you\u2019re new to the live chat or the column, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/lifestyle\/2021\/07\/30\/carolyn-hax-chat-glossary-terms-abbreviations\/?itid=lk_inline_manual_7\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">this glossary of terms might be helpful.<\/a><br \/>From the very first Hootenanny comes the Death Chair story about one family\u2019s cursed seat at the head of the holiday dining table. You can probably guess what happened to a couple of the reader\u2019s relatives who sat there. The original poster even gave readers <a href=\"https:\/\/live.washingtonpost.com\/carolyn-hax-live-20181207.html#5387826?itid=lk_inline_manual_9\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">an update 18 years later<\/a>!<br \/>Bonus: This chat also, separately, features the Reindeer Poop Award.<br \/><span class=\"font--article-body font-copy hide-for-print ma-0 pb-md db italic interstitial\"><a data-qa=\"interstitial-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-srv\/liveonline\/00\/magazine\/hax120400.htm?itid=lk_inline_manual_6&amp;itid=lk_inline_manual_42&amp;itid=lk_interstitial_manual_11\">The first holiday chat (2000)<\/a><\/span><br \/>A turkey, a tequila sauce, a ball of fire. What more do you need?<br \/>(See also <a href=\"https:\/\/live.washingtonpost.com\/carolyn-hax-live-20161216.html#4511970?itid=lk_inline_manual_48&#038;itid=lk_inline_manual_14\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the exploding Bacardi ham of 2016<\/a>.)<br \/><span class=\"font--article-body font-copy hide-for-print ma-0 pb-md db italic interstitial\"><a data-qa=\"interstitial-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/discussion\/2010\/11\/30\/DI2010113004106.html?itid=lk_inline_manual_43&amp;itid=lk_interstitial_manual_15\">The 2010 Holiday Hootenanny of Horrors<\/a><\/span><br \/>The absence of stuffing at Thanksgiving causes one reader to have an epic meltdown that is fondly remembered by many live chat participants. If you thought this would be the end of the original poster\u2019s stuffing woes, <a href=\"https:\/\/live.washingtonpost.com\/carolyn-hax-live-20161216.html#4511970?itid=lk_inline_manual_48&#038;itid=lk_inline_manual_17\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">their update one year later will prove you wrong.<\/a><br \/><span class=\"font--article-body font-copy hide-for-print ma-0 pb-md db italic interstitial\"><a data-qa=\"interstitial-link\" href=\"https:\/\/live.washingtonpost.com\/carolyn-hax-live-20151211.html#4006142?itid=lk_inline_manual_48&amp;itid=lk_interstitial_manual_18\">Hootenanny of Holiday Horrors 2015<\/a><\/span><br \/>The Naked Susan story begins with an innocent enough family game of charades but has an ending for the hootenanny ages that includes a significant cliffhanger. Don\u2019t worry \u2014 the original poster came back <a href=\"https:\/\/live.washingtonpost.com\/carolyn-hax-live20191213.html#5828814?itid=lk_inline_manual_20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">with a much-asked about update the next year.<\/a><br \/><span class=\"font--article-body font-copy hide-for-print ma-0 pb-md db italic interstitial\"><a data-qa=\"interstitial-link\" href=\"https:\/\/live.washingtonpost.com\/carolyn-hax-live-20181207.html#5386317?itid=lk_inline_manual_46&amp;itid=lk_interstitial_manual_21\">Hootenanny of Holiday Horrors 2018<\/a><\/span><br \/>The 2020 Holiday Hootenanny  came in hot with a decaying, 20-something-year-old gag centerpiece made of food scraps. Celery Man has leafy jazz hands, three toothpick legs and a place of honor every holiday season.  The original poster sent over a photo of the celery man, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/lifestyle\/2020\/12\/18\/live-chat-carolyn-hax\/#link-81b3850c540c46fd886dd926f9651f4d?itid=lk_inline_manual_23\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">seen here in a reply to Carolyn\u2019s greeting in the next week\u2019s live chat.<\/a><br \/><span class=\"font--article-body font-copy hide-for-print ma-0 pb-md db italic interstitial\"><a data-qa=\"interstitial-link\" href=\"https:\/\/live.washingtonpost.com\/carolyn-hax-live20201211-holiday-hoot.html?itid=lk_inline_manual_28&amp;itid=lk_interstitial_manual_24\">Hootenanny of Holiday Horrors 2020<\/a><\/span><br \/>Carolyn shares a remixed version of Clement C. Moore\u2019s poem, \u201cA Visit From St. Nicholas,\u201d by her dad, John Hax, in many of the hootenannies. What began as a holiday tradition from the Hax household became a hootenanny mainstay.<br \/>The poems are mini time capsules with their references to the political climate or popular celebrities of the moment \u2014 like the 2012 version with the lines, \u201cOn Newt and Michelle. On Rick, Ron and Mitt.\u201d<br \/><span class=\"font--article-body font-copy hide-for-print ma-0 pb-md db italic interstitial\"><a data-qa=\"interstitial-link\" href=\"https:\/\/live.washingtonpost.com\/carolyn-hax-live-120712.html?itid=lk_inline_manual_18&amp;itid=lk_interstitial_manual_28\">Hootenanny of Holiday Horrors 2012<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/news.google.com\/__i\/rss\/rd\/articles\/CBMiVWh0dHBzOi8vd3d3Lndhc2hpbmd0b25wb3N0LmNvbS9hZHZpY2UvMjAyMi8xMS8xNS9jYXJvbHluLWhheC1iZXN0LWhvbGlkYXktbGl2ZS1jaGF0cy_SAQA?oc=5\">source<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sign inThe holiday season means advice columnist Carolyn Hax\u2019s annual celebration of holiday horror stories is around the corner. Since 2000, readers have shared their favorite holiday memories, whether they be the most ridiculous or touching, to the special live chat, also known as the Holiday Hootenanny.In December 2000, Carolyn wrote an article, \u201cGreat Expectations,\u201d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":79196,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79195","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=79195"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79195\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/79196"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=79195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=79195"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loopbeatzz.info\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=79195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}